I left Kane
at home because I didn't want to deal with him on a leash and Ellie in my arms.
He still has a tendency to pull to other dogs and I was planning to make the
rounds at all the local pet stores (where I am referred to as "the owner
of Kane—you know Kane, that pit bull I told you about who is so friendly and
polite?").
Our first
stop was at Wood's Marathon. This is an old-style, full service gas station and
garage, where the attendants (all gruff old men or young hunky dudes) come out
and clean your windows for you while you pump your gas. They're very
dog-friendly, allowing dogs on leash inside the small room where they have the
register and the pop coolers, and they have a big old container full of
milkbones they hand out freely and slightly excessively. :-)
Kane is very
popular there, even with the owner who was bitten by a pit bull when he was a
kid and has slowly graduated from giving me
the treats to give to Kane, to giving Kane the treats out of his own hand.
There's a younger guy, maybe a few years older than me, who apparently had pits
while he lived in Texas and absolutely adores Kane; he's constantly offering me
money to buy Kane off my hands, joking around, knowing I'll never sell Kane for
any amount of money in the world. I have to watch him when he has the container
of milbones because when I haven't he's given Kane almost half the container!
Luckily, Kane has a fast metabolism and has maintained his svelte figure. ;-)
As you can
imagine, the sight of a fluffy girly puppy had all the big tough men melting to
pieces around Ellie.
They
fed her a milkbone or five (I saved the remaining 4 for later and gave a couple
to Kane for being a good boy in his crate when I got home) and basically let
her run wild and loose over them. She was an attention-hog, offering her belly
for rubs to anyone in a 3 foot radius, and she got in some good exposure to the
typical sounds you get in a garage.
After that, I
stopped at the vets to discuss moving her appointment. I was worried it was too
early. Mary gave the litter their first shots and deworming at 6 weeks, which I
thought would've put the right time for her appointment into next week since you need at least 3
weeks between the two. Except I counted wrong, aha. I only had to move the
appointment a day back, to Thursday. She got much love while there too, from Dr
M and the vet techs. Hopefully, Emily, the receptionist, is working on Thursday;
she's got a tiny pittie named Rogue, who only weighs ~30lbs. Rogue and Kane
have a definite lovelove relationship. They're always making googoo eyes on the
days Rogue is there, and Emily is always up for a giggle and a coo over our
dogs. :-)
Then it was
off to Petsmart. On the way in, we were stopped by an older couple who got a
little breathless with excitement at seeing Ellie. They had just recently put
down their 13 year old black tri female aussie because of issues with her age. We
talked about our dogs for a good 10-15 minutes, discussing agility and rally
which they'd done with their aussie, and towards the end, the older man asked
to hold Ellie and actually teared up. It was achingly sweet watching them
cuddle with each other. It made the entire day worth it.
While there,
I got some good, smelly Bil-Jacs liver treats because Ellie's having issues
with the Zuke's (I think they're a little too hard for her right now) and just
walked around the store, letting anyone who saw her pet her. There was a
younger couple, my age, who had just gotten a new boxer puppy.
Guys, he was
seriously the cutest, most adorable boxer puppy! He had ears almost as big as
his head! It was too bad he was so young. :( I'm not sure what his exact age
was, as it never came up, but he was smaller than my miniature aussie puppy. Maybe 5-6 weeks old?
In fact, he
looked a lot like this puppy (with bigger ears) who is listed as being 5 weeks
old.
And here is
Kane (and his sister Roxie) at 5 and a half weeks old.
Boxer puppy
looked very similar to the above pics, with the domed head, too big ears, and
wrinkles. Too young to be away from mother and littermates. :(
After
Petsmart, it was off to Pet Supplies Plus. She only met two people here, both
women, but her Eukanuba puppy food was on sale for almost half-off, so I
grabbed a bag.
Joey's Pet
Outfitters was next. This is a family-owned, semi-boutique type pet store. I
love the staff, they're so friendly and helpful, but stuff is a little on the
expensive side. They've built a dog park in the acreage behind the store that I
can't wait to take Kane to as it has agility equipment and etc in it, but it's
been too rainy here to put the fence in yet.
Seriously,
the weather has been so ridiculous here lately. 13 of the first 18 days in May were
rainy, and it's been the wettest spring on record. Of course, I'd rather have
rain than the tornados the south has been suffering from.
The count is
over 1100 tornados this season, when the average is a little over 500. 600 of
the total tornados happened in the span of one
day on April 26th. Last night, there was a wave of 30 tornados that
stretched from Missouri clear up to Minnesota and Wisconsin. Joplin, Missouri
was hit the hardest, with 116 dead and a town that has basically been leveled.
As someone who has lived through a tornado, my heart goes out to them. There
are no words for the terror and helplessness you feel in that situation.
But Joey's
Pet Outfitters. I stopped in there to ask about their puppy class. They have
one starting June 5th. Perfect for Ellie to get her second set of shots and fit
it in under the 12 week window. Except it's $99 for only 4 weeks and there's a size limit of 4 puppies. Not a whole lot of
socialization with other puppies there, eh?
I'm probably
going to sign up with the puppy class Kane's doggy daycare, Annabelle's, offers
instead. $99 for 6 weeks with a limit of 10 puppies in class. Only thing is
that I won't be able to sign her up for this class session—I'll have to wait
until the next one on July 7th. She'll be 15 weeks old … is there a big
difference between exposure to other dogs during the 12 week window or waiting
another 3 weeks? Anyone know?
After Joey's,
we also stopped at Tractor Supply Company where I let her walk around on her
leash and then went to Petco where, luckily enough, there was a group there
from a local mentally disabled group home. They all adored her and she got in a
little bit of some rough handling from some of them, which she took like a
champ and only gave them more kisses, her stubby little tail wagging furiously.
It was so great to see her bring them so much joy. :-) Several of them
mentioned their parents owning dogs and told me all the ways those dogs were
the best dogs in the world or how their dog could do this trick.
Ellie was
pretty knackered by then, so we went home to get lunch and take a nap (both of
us!). Kane got his biscuits and he curled up on the couch with me. It took me a
bit to fall asleep even though I was tired, so I got to spend some alone time,
just me and Kane. I sang his song to him and he wedged himself in between me
and the back of the couch so I could rub his ears the way he likes.
It rained
(surprise!) while we napped, but it was great because it lowered the humidity and
temps. The pups and I spent most of the evening outside in the backyard,
running around and being goofy. Ellie has no problems chasing after Kane and
inviting him to play now and she's already displaying her herding background.
She loves to run alongside him and try to nip at his shoulders or his heels if
she can't quite get the speed. She's tried herding me a couple of times, but
usually if I stop moving she loses interest. If she actually grabs hold of my
pants, I yelp and she leans up against me in apology and tries to get a belly
rub in, the little bugger.
Clicker
training's going a lot better. She definitely understands click = treat and
will look to the clicker after she gets a treat for a new one, and if her
attention starts to wander, I can get it back by clicking. Our last session of
the day, I started with her on a sit. She quickly understood that to get the
click, she had to plop her butt down. Tomorrow I'll start generalizing it to
different locations inside and outside and different positions with me
standing, kneeling, etc. I'm not sure how it'll go with sitting or laying down,
as sitting = cuddle time and laying down = jungle gym time, but we'll see. :-)
And then
there was The Incident.
When I picked
Ellie up, Mary let me pick a toy out of a basket to take home. I chose a
stuffed kong toy shaped like a boomerang, with a squeaker in the middle. When I
got home, I noticed Kane took any opportunity to grab it and run off to nom on
it. I didn't think anything of it and managed the situation by putting it away
with an "All Done" command or placing it in Ellie's expen.
Tonight I was
making dinner. Ellie was out and both pups were in the kitchen with me. Kane
left and came back with the kong toy, but I didn't think anything of it. Then I
heard him growl, the sound of him lunging with his head, and turned in time to
see Ellie tumbling back with a squeak.
Ellie is
fine. Kane didn't make contact. The squeak was from fear, not pain.
In shock, I
did a Very Bad Thing and scolded Kane and took the toy away.
You should
never do this to a dog that resource guards something against another dog. Do
it often enough and it'll reinforce that Other Dog around whatever the object
is equals Bad Thing and by then, they've also learned that growling (and thus
warning Other Dog) will only result in a scolding, so they will also go
straight to biting.
And, as a
generally slightly paranoid owner, I immediately posted an entry asking for
help from my friends on LJ on what to do (OH GOD, IS KANE BECOMING AGGRESSIVE,
WHAT DO I DO?!).
I should note
here that Kane has never done this before, ever, for anything, to any person or
animal. He is a very patient dog, laidback, usually a little oblivious about
things at first, but well-meaning and able to take a hint. He's the dog at the
dog park who will galumph after a ball and start bringing it back, but will
drop it willingly if another dog comes up to him (whether they're actually
after the ball or not). For the past couple of days, he's allowed Ellie to
clamber all over him, bite his tail, chew on his ears, and be rude in the way
only puppies can safely get away with. She's pranced right up and taken toys
from him while he looks at me as if to say, "Moooom, she's doing it
again!"
As my friends
are all awesome and used to my sometimes-dramatic responses to things, they all
told me to calm down and not worry about it. Kane was being a typical dog, he
responded appropriately to her puppy obliviousness and taught her a valuable
lesson. And they were right. On Ellie's part, she recovered quickly and invited
him to play with another toy a few minutes later, but she's definitely a bit
more cautious about approaching him when he already has a toy. I've noticed her
giving him appropriate, Mother May I signals asking if it's okay to walk up to
him. Kane acts like nothing of any importance happened, just another day in the
life of an adult teaching a puppy some manners. I still erred on the side of
caution and did some training exercises with Kane, wherein I gave him turkey
and cheese chunks for calmly watching Ellie play with the stuffed kong toy and
practiced "sharing" the toy, letting Kane chew on it, asking him to
drop it, giving it to Ellie for ~10 seconds and then promptly giving it back to
Kane.
When I sat
down and thought about it (and recovered from my shock, lol), The Incident and
resulting interactions between Kane and Ellie are what I missed when I had just
Kane. Watching dogs play and interact together is so much fun, and it's doubly
fun watching a puppy learn doggy language and proper social skills.
We had one
accident today, totally my fault (as it always is). I was super stupid and on
my way outside with Ellie after she woke up from her 2-hr nap, I got distracted
by the phone and set her down. She waited patiently for five minutes before
squatting. Good girl.
3 weeks is a pretty long delay at that age. Some say the window closes at 16 weeks but a lot of people say 12.
ReplyDeleteIdeally you would sign up for both classes, but I don't think that's possible. I mean, even the June 5th class is later than I would recommend starting, but it doesn't sound like you have any earlier options.
So...if you can keep up what you did today, get her out and about and keep meeting new people and be sure to meet new dogs as well, then I wouldn't worry about it as much. So call all your dog friends who have friendly, healthy dogs, and invite them over.
@Anita
ReplyDeleteFinances are tight, but on Friday, I can double-check and see if I can spare the $200 for both.
There really are no other options. There are only three places that give puppy classes in my area, and the third, an Obedience Training Club, starts at about the same time as Joey's, I think.
I'll definitely keep taking her out. Today I have plans to take her along Grand River in East Lansing, so she can meet 82954 million college students. Parvo and flu are really bad around here this year, so I really want to wait until after she gets her second shots on Thursday before she meets any other dogs besides Kane.
I had a similar incident when I brought my 1.5 year old whippet border collie mix, Dolce home to my 8 and 7 year old greyhound girls. I freaked out when they would yell at him for something, but I have come to realize that they are simply teaching him an important lesson in dog manners.
ReplyDeleteStill scares the crap out of me, though!
Enjoying the story of Ellie :)
Sounds like Ellie had a really busy day, both with meeting other people and with learning some doggy etiquette! I wouldn't worry at all about Kane snarking at her--it's natural, and even Jess (the most tolerant dog ever with dogs that she knows) will tell Lola off if she's being too obnoxious.
ReplyDeleteI bet Ellie was trying to take the toy too much, and Kane just decided to tell her that if it's in his mouth, it's his. :) Just be careful not to give them any high value guardy things while they're alone together for a while, just in case.
-- Sophie from courtoftails (comment form is being wonky!)
All those people she is meeting is perfect! Be sure to also seek out young kids and eldery people as well. Hopefully some of those college kids will be wearing backpacks, hats, and glasses.
ReplyDeleteI definitely understand your concern if parvo is big in your area. Do you have friends with healthy dogs Ellie can meet for now (or after her next shot but before her puppy class starts)? If not, then just try to really make up for it when she gets her shots and then when puppy class starts.
We do like that it has a higher, almost cuffed neckline, to eliminate snow and rain. Dogs
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